It is common to blame oneself or others when we are not successful in our home or choices of career. As a result some of us give up their dreams and become burden to theirselves and relatives, some become so miserable and frustrated to the extend that they take their life. What a wasted life, dreams and aspiration. If only you have the idea of believing in yourself, the hidden light in you, created by God.
Believing in oneself is a light within us but need to ignite to shine broadly. At a point in life, your role model or the so called successful one so to say, also have problem of igniting their in built light so as to enable them become what they are today. In other words, their ability to ignite their inbuilt light make the different between you and them and which made the turning point in their life and become successful. However, for one to be able to believed in him or herself, the following steps can be taken.
First, setting of goal; at a point in life, you have to set a goal, that is, what you intend to achieve in life and how you intend to live your life. The goal is so important for one to be able to believe in oneself but does not necessarily mean that the goal must be the right one. Some people feels that they are not enlighten enough to set a goal for theirselves. If you are learned or enlightened enough to set right goal for yourself fine, but should you not, make even a wrong one for a start. as you continue making correction on the wrong goal , the possibility of getting it right is certain and there lays the secrete to success.
Secondly, be focus on your goal: once a goal has be made, it is pertinent on us to monitor it. Ensuring that we are not distracted from what we hope to achieved.
Thirdly, Accessment of goal: From time to time, we are to evaluate our goal to ensure that we are making progress. Should we discovered that no much progress has been made or hope to be achieved, then we can re strategized.
Finally, be patience: When your goal seems to be failing or not meeting up to expectation, you have to be courageous. In actual fact, it is only one that quite that is a failure, you can try, try and try again on till you succeed.
For you to succeed, you have to believe in yourself, you have to set a goal in life wether right or wrong, make correction if necessary, be focus, access your goal, be patience and courageous to start again if there need.
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